After Finding the perfect shooting spot (the shade tree) my Husband Sets up. Mr Don, our preacher begins to build him a Blind out of the dead peanut plants lying around. And then it is time for the boys to "scout out" the area. Shoot anything that moves with a BB gun and play in the tall grass. Hunting is serious business ;)
Thankfully the owner of the place is willing to let me use their restroom so that makes my day much better :). When I return I find that all three of the boys are making blinds. While Hutch and Gage made their own. Curt just sat behind Mr Don's and talked his ear off. Not a single bird and the boys are having a blast preparing for the birds to come. Finally when Eric and I start talking about leaving the birds start flying. I will admit the adrenaline that comes with a bird hunting is a lot of fun. One bird would fly in and the whole field would become a war zone. Sadly we went home with nothing to show for our hunt, but the men nor the boys don't seem to mind. They made cool Blinds, shot stuff and got Dirty. And if we remember our conversation with Curtis that is what Dove hunting is all about.
Anyone who has relationships with other people need to read about Love Languages. It gives you and deeper understanding how how to communicate with each other and why you respond to certain things the way you do. My Husband's Love Language is Quality time; which means he wants me to be "with" him. When I ask him what is his favorite thing about our marriage, the answer is us sitting around having Coffee together in the mornings. I can tell him how awesome he is (because Words of affirmation is my language) and that doesn't mean very much if I am not willing to be with him when he ask. SO the idea of Dove hunting may not have been top of my priority list but realizing my Husband's need for me to show him love by sitting "with" him in a field will go a long way at making our relationship better. It is easy to focus on our needs and our language, but the truth behind any good relationship is putting someone else needs above your own. God will bless that type of behavior and the more unselfish your behavior is the more Glory to God you show your spouse.